WHAT ABOUT EUNUCHS?
“For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.”
Matthew 19:12 KJV”
This verse makes it clear that there are eunuchs. Some are congenital eunuchs while others are made so by men. It is not strange to be eunuch. Just like some people lose a toe in a fight, an arm in an accident, a limb at war, someone can lose his manhood too. And just as God miraculously replaces any lost part of the body when He is beseeched to do so, He can replace the eunuch’s manhood if He is asked to do so.
An eunuch should NOT MARRY because he will be unable to fulfil a very important obligation of a husband towards his wife. If he marries, the marriage will be very unpleasant for the wife because she will not be sexually satisfied and will never be able to bear children of her own.
If you are an eunuch, don’t delay in disclosing the problem to your partner before you get married. If you delay, you are entertaining two evils. One, the woman will be disappointed and perhaps despair all through life. Two, you will be laying steels of problems at the foundation level of your home.
The same counsel goes to a woman who has a major defect in her body (maybe her reproductive organ). Let your partner know about it, and if he decides to carry on with the marriage proceedings, combining your faith with his, believe God for a miracle.
HE can do all things.
This applies only to those who are contemplating marriage. For those who have married and discovered the presence of this problem in their lives, they should know that there is solution for every problem.
With God ALL THINGS are possible (Mark 10:27).
THE BEST MATCHMAKER
After you have recognised and come to terms with the desire to get married, and you are satisfied that you are actually ready for marriage, the next puzzle to solve would then be that of who to get married to.
When many people come to this point, such questions as who to marry, who seeks him or her out for them (mother, father, friends, pastor, or self) flood their minds.
Isaiah 46:9-10 introduces us to the best Matchmaker yet:“Remember the former things of old: for I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me, Declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times the things that are not yet done, saying, My counsel shall stand, and I will do all my pleasure:”
Isaiah 46:9-10 KJV.
God is the peerless Matchmaker. You cannot compare your caring parents with Him. You cannot compare your concerned friends and neighbours with Him. Your wise counsellor pastor cannot be compared with the Omniscient GOD. See, know that your pastor is human and can be deceived into encouraging you to marry a particular brother or sister based on what you tell him. But God cannot be deceived. He knows you inside-out.
The reality is that a lot of challenges threaten marriages (problematic in-laws, childlessness, rebellion children, a partner’s infidelity, financial squabble between partners and other related issues) and you cannot go to your friends, parents, and pastors when problems arise in your marriage or family life. God is the only Comforter and Guide in any marriage relationship. It is only reasonable to start with him. Let Him seek out a help-meet for you.
God’s word says in Proverbs 18:22, “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”
Proverbs 18:22 KJV.
A similar verse also says,
“House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the Lord.”
Proverbs 19:14 KJV
Before God chooses a person for you to marry, He consider your life, your future, your temperament, your disposition and everything that will make for your happiness in that marriage. God knows all virtuous women and honourable men and the mighty men of valour. They are in His custody. You cannot get one outside the counsel of God. You need to go to God in purposeful prayer and ask for the virtuous woman / honourable man and mighty man of valour who is meet for you. This is the only way of finding and knowing who to marry. He will not deny you if you have a relationship with Him. He will promptly heed and grant your desire.
God will honour the people who wait on Him.
He respect those who respect Him and appreciate those who appreciate Him.
Give your life to JESUS today, keep His commandments; your future is blessed in JESUS mighty name amen.
Be wise! Do it God’s way!!!
You will not marry your enemy in JESUS Mighty name amen.
JESUS IS THE LORD